Thursday, September 21, 2006

One more.....

...quick post. This weekend I'll be going deer hunting with my dad and both my boys. This will be youngest's first hunting trip. It's going to be a very special weekend. The only down side is that oldest busted his wrist at school today so he's in a cast for a few weeks. He's really upset about it too because the Dr. told him no shooting. My dad and I were going to bring our .22's along for the kids to plink around with. So he's pretty bummed about it. But he is happy to be going out in my dads fifth wheel. When I return next week I should have some good pictures to post up.

Now I do have a question for women out there (men to if you want to pitch in with your experience as well). It is said that a male reaches his sexual peak at about 17-18 years of age. When does a female reach her peak? And how do you know when she has reached it? I have noticed that the last few times Summer and I have been together she has just been phenomenal. She has left me completely breathless. Really. There is just such a huge change in making love to her the past few weeks compared to the last few years. I'm just curious if it is due to her reaching her "peak" or is it because of the decrease in the amount of sex we have.
Or could it be because her feelings for me have truly started to change for the better again. Just things for me to ponder.

If you haven't done so you might want to drop by and see this topic that is going on over at FTN's place. It's mind boggling to me to see that he has over 115 comments. The topic reminded me of a discussion he and I were having over at Unsolicited Advice a few months ago. It reminded me that I never have posted my thoughts on religion like I said I would. So it is here now as a reminder to me that I need to do it in the near future.

Until next week when I see you again. Have a good weekend!

Oh one last thing- Wish us luck tomorrow. SR and I will be going to a new school in the morning to see if that is where we want our son to go. So fare from what we have seen on the web and from what Melissa has said from what she has seen it will be the perfect school for our son. Here's to hoping for transportation!

13 comments:

Just Me said...

35 years old. That plus feeling comfortable with her body as well as with yours.


good luck with the hunting and the school.

Confused Husband said...

just me Thanks for the luck wishes! It might be that she is feeling more comfortable with her body. I'll have to ask her when we go to bed. :D
CH

Emily said...

Well, I always heard that, biologically, women peak in their thirties, but personally I think the timing would be about things like how the relationship is, how comfortable she is with her sexuality and her partner, etc.

I do find that, in my thirties, I don't necessarily have a higher drive, but I am a lot less self conscious and more able to just go for it!

oblivion said...

Well I've always had a high sex drive. Since hitting my thirties it's gone into overdrive.

But it's hard to say if it's actually me hitting my "peak" or if it's due to lack of intimacy on the home front.

Probably a bit of both.

LBP said...

Have a great trip and be careful. Go out and make some memories.

FTN said...

I think the "women's sexual peak" is an interesting question. Wish I had a good answer. I did write about that very subject once, but it was more out of pessimism than anything else.

O272 said...

What I want to know is - - what if she HAS reached her sexual peak and it's over say....tomorrow? Does it matter?

Desmond Jones said...

You know, I've seen some of that 'sexual peak' stuff, and I don't know that I take it all that seriously. I'm not real sure what it means, for one thing.

I mean, at 18/19, I could probably get a 'better' erection than I can now, but I didn't have any self-control to 'make myself last'. If you ask Molly, I'm pretty sure she'd tell you that we're having the best sex of our lives right now, and we're both 50.

There may be some 'sexual peak' that women reach in their 30s, but my experience is that it has WAY more to do with how secure she feels in your marriage, and how loved/cared for she feels by you.

I mean, why figure that you're over-the-hill when you're 40, if you know it can keep getting better into your 50s and beyond?

And gee, for a guy still in his 30s, your beard is almost as gray as mine. . .

;)

Mr. Husbland said...

Good luck CH & SR!

Emily said...

Okay, this is an official call for male sex fantasies over at my blog (our own men won't tell us)!

The wierder and funnier the better...

aiRah said...

hi there.. have a nice day!

goodluck with your everyday life..

cheers,
airah

Cinnamon said...

Well, I've always been really high libido, but probaby in my 30's is when I've become more comfortable about it and grown into it to enjoy that fact even more.

Maturity dropped my inhibitions.

I'm hoping my 40's will continue the upward trend!

ZigZagMan said...

biology and mentality are not mutaully exclusive, and both count....:)